Hello Fans, today’s blog is about having safe sex on line. It may seem a bit of a divergence to my recent blogs on Sex Secrets but bear with me, it isn’t. One big secret, well perhaps not a secret, just something most folks don’t talk about but they KNOW about it: On line sexual satisfaction. From watching porn to get your rocks off, free sexy chat and cams there are a multitude of ways to indulge your sexual fantasies online. But with that comes the potential for blow-back, big time. Like ruin your life ,blow-back. Why I’m writing this blog is because one of my clients is currently in a pickle because of their online adventures and it’s pissing me off. One, because he knows we provide a safe place and shame on them for straying! Two, because there are those folks out there which do this , trap you into a no win situation.
Safe Sex Online
Safe Sex Sexy Texting
So you find yourself on twitter, tumblr or a multitude of social media platforms when a sexy text comes in on your DM. Or perhaps it titillates you to send sexy messages to them, and WOW…….. She responded IN KIND! Before you know it , it’s hot an nasty and you are squirting your load. Great, right? Mmmmm Maybe. Who is this mystery person? Many times it’s really a GUY who likes to get other guys off. Sometimes it’s a female who is on the prowl, looking for her next rube. Either way they have written proof of your activities. But it doesn’t stop there, through this convo or the next you think she’s really digging you! You begin to reveal more and more about you. They watch your posts garnering bits of information. Before you know it, they have talked you into giving them your phone number, or email address. Or over time they ascertain your location through your posts or emails to them. Next thing you know they are not so friendly and finally they reveal that they have you by the balls. Now what?
I’m telling you, whatever sexual satisfaction you received it’s not worth the above. Is it?
Safe Sex Cam Sites
Oh I’ve had clients admit they have visited the free cam sites. Hot girls watching you stroke,and/or seeing a naughty woman do naughty things at your behest is hot! You are so hot n horny you don’t even fathom that they can screen shot, or record their session with you utilizing video capturing on their pc. Yea the family picture in the background is totally visible. So is your degree from Dartmouth. You think they are sexy woman just looking for fun? You would be right, the kind of fun which will ultimately line their pockets. Not so free is it?
Safe Sex With LDW/ Enchantrix
The reason I am here, the reason services like LDW are here is because we offer a truly safe environment. We are professionals who are compensated for our skills and we are not about to F with that for anyone or anything. I have zero interest in doing anything nefarious unless it’s in the context of fantasy. I don’t have to fuck with anyone, what I do gives me a beautiful life and I’m not about to fuck with THAT for anyone, or anything. A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush!
Sexy Options
We offer sexy texting and if you are in Europe where calling might be prohibitive for you: Skype and our sexy texting chat room are free to sign up and use with your session. We can even do voice over Skype , if you prefer a voice call. For those who like to be watched, we provide safe professionals whose goal is to make sure you get what you came looking for. Safe for all involved.
So before you think getting that free stuff is a great value, think again. Safe, discreet and with Educated Intelligent Femdoms offering a variety of services you’ll never regret your play with us. Sure we offer Domination over the phone which includes everything from JOI to chastity. Giantess, and other fantasy play. We know what having a fetish is all about and we are experienced in pushing those buttons.
Why I bet if you peruse the ladies you’ll even find a few who just LOVE GFE (Girlfriend experience) or what’s commonly referred to as the typical “Phone sex” of yore. Check out our Mistress line for a sampling of all things kinky, and sexual we offer. Don’t see your interest? Let me know you might be pleasantly surprised.
Being sexual and having fun should not come with such ramifications. I’m here. Be it a ten minute session or an hour, if you are going to interact sexually on line, be safe!
Until We Chat????
Mistress Erika
A really good post Goddess Erika, i am always careful for those reasons. LDW is so great to call even for only 16 to 20 minutes sessions like i do. I have called a lot of ladies before but You are my favorite Mistress to call.
Aww!
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You are an amazing support for me and the other ladies. You know whenever you call, for however long, you are going to have a good time!
Thankyou MISTRESS ERIKA, there can be danger at there .Thankyou for being watchful ,protective .and making sure we are safe .yeah sissy tedi is vunerable and lots of us are vunerable .sincerly beta bottom bitch tedi
You are welcome tedi!
I definitely want to call you and the other ldw mistresses on weekly basis. Every time I try to call my phone rings and my dad wants me to stop over or he’s on way to my place. 🙁 family is important. I just can’t seem to find the time 🙁 I need to get Skype so all of you can see me dressed/madeup in lipstick/wigs. This will change the dynamics of our relationship with all of you. I’ve decided to quit trying to find girlfriends. The ones I play tennis with have put me in friend zone and most women my age are married with kids and I’m not. This means I’m not boyfriend material anymore which I’m fine with as I can finally dress up and call all of you.
Paulina! you are right family is important. I agree adding cam will alter the dynamics and in a GOOD way! Being able to access your walk movements and really work on your feminization in discernible ways is the way to go!
Excellent post, as always, Mistress Erika!
Yes, We can get into some pretty edgy and wild stuff, but always making it clear that it’s fantasy. When I remind the occasional client about Our ToS, sometimes they’re disappointed; I think there are some men who either lose their powers of discernment when they’re horny, or actively seek out risk when they are.
So sometimes W/e have to support their best interests *for* them. But posts like this will help those who, against their better judgement, venture out from under the protection of Our iron-clad ethics here at LDW — not to mention Our unmatched talent for sexy, intelligent Femdom fun — and hopefully make them think twice!
Hey there sexy!
Thanks for stopping by. You nailed it, of course. When men are horny their inhibitions are lowered, reallllllllllllllll low (haha) and that thrill seeker and risky behavior over flows!
See you around the Empire! ????
Safe+on line+horny from your post title and that would be the proper order NOT horny first then get online then think about being safe!
Oh yes, best to think beforehand, long before the !rise of the bone! because that is when it is too late to think clearly. Yes as you said when horny our inhibitions go lower than the stick at the International Limbo Finals! (Hmmm I wonder if I should try that naked on cam for you?)
Anyway… I agree with you on the the risks of getting caught up by unscrupulous people out there. There is that false sense of security thinking we are safe behind our computers, phones etc but those kind of people will find a way. Not worth it.
I was glad to have discovered The LDW Empire. I too like that we all can have our own private lives but meet here, safely, for our own kinky fun.
I like being able to let my secrets out of the bag here without judgement and even then for the first couple years I was still guarded about many things, not revealing too much about myself. I waited 2 years before I would even get on cam, a sort of period of being in Limbo you could say. (ha ha! I snuck that one in again)
So yeah, great post. Kind of like Dr Ruth advice and PLEASE I sincerely mean that as a compliment! Dr Ruth was a champion of getting all things sexual out in the open where people could talk freely about it.
Why thank you for the plethora of compliments. Your comments are indicative of experiences had by many. Thank you for sharing.
The title is exactly as I wanted it, but I do appreciate your interest.
Mistress Erika, Absolutely this site is a safe place.The best part is the quality,world class quality.Of course fantasy is also place to escape for many.The drudgery of the everyday responsibilities one can leave.Of course many mind blowing times with mistresses of your quality take place.A person’s sexual life is only part of who one is.Yes,it is a top priority for many,but there are other things in life that matter.Having subspace fun with an LDW mistress is indeed safe.Then one can go on with other areas of their life.Just think when the fun is over many times the fantasy ebbs until time and nature rekindle it.Then, LDW is an option for another time of adventure and fun.Yes,forget the other nonsense.Get in touch with your feelings with a LDW mistress.Sincerity and kindness is important.Mistress Erika you have that among your many other qualities.
Gigi , darling! How have you been!?! Good to see you!
Thank you for your kind words!
Also , “your words” to “their ears”. ????????
Yes, I was agreeing with you.
You did agree with me, I acknowledge it.