Welcome to Wednesday and this blog about why begging is part of your submission. Some of you might know the answer to that question, others may not even care what the answer is. Both , know, however how HOT it is! That’s part of the equation!
D/s Power Exchange
For those who are curious about the D/s dynamic, or those who want to know more why Mistress likes it when you beg : Simply put it’s all about the power exchange. In a typical world people view themselves more or less equal to those around you. What I find most erotic is that male, who views himself in this way, is able to put that self aside for Me. To submit his mind, his body for My pleasure.
Part of experiencing that power exchange are rituals. Something routine, setting the scene. The human mind is a lovely thing and once conditioned these rituals provide a delicious reaction in your mind and body. Doesn’t it. The rituals don’t have to be complex. Requiring My submissive to kneel, naked, vulnerable before Me is a simple,and delightful one.
Another kind of ritual are affirmations, affirming the bond. Recognizing your place and purpose for Mistress.
“Mistress, I submit my body and mind to you, I need your control.”
“Mistress, I kneel before you, vulnerable chaste and await your command”
So many lovely words, what I choose for you remains to be seen. I’m not a cookie cutter Mistress, and although certain trigger words also prove to condition my mind but it also aids to inspire my Dom Space. So perhaps SOME words are “re used” but not all.
So many rituals, so little time. Out of the box thinking and you can see rituals in most things.
It could be participating in body worship, as your Mistress desires. It could mean a certain set of items to prepare, wear or tasks to accomplish before you submit. Regardless of the ritual Mistress desires the close association of the ritual paired with the erotic elements help to condition your mind.
So you see, begging is just another form of a ritual. It reaffirms the bond, accentuates the power exchange. It also drives home, what brings you to Mistress in the first place. It’s one thing for Mistress to say “you’re my stroking slut” and another for those same words to escape your own lips. Take a look at my blog about begging, from Monday. You’ll see.
Are you the stereotypical executive by day and submissive by night! Mmmm gets Me revved up just writing about it! WooOT! So how do you feel about begging? I mean, it’s kinda in your wheelhouse, being a Y chromosome sporting human, and all. I wanna know!
Until You Beg ????
MISTRESS ERIKA i submit my body and mind to you i need you control .i beg for you to continue your training of sissy tedi sincerly yours beta bottom bitch tedi
Mmmmmm Lovely , Tedi!
MISTRESS i kneel before you chaste and await your command sincerly yours beta bottom bitch tedi
I love Begging rituals…any ritual really that involves me on my knees!
See how wonderfully your mind and body has been conditioned to crave the same! Mmmmmmm delicious!
Goddess Erika, i never thought about begging being part of my submission before but i guess it can be. i do like begging rituals even though i am already submissive. One last thing. i am an executive by day and submissive by night kind of guy.
tftt, you are! Mmmmm, tiny one there’s more I need to learn about you!
Begging can set the mood, or reaffirm your place. I think you are a good tiny beggar, but could be better! 😉 You could ALWAYS be better, for Mistress, right chicklet drawers?
Even though you’ve already dressed/lipstick kissed my cheeks and kept me as your cream puff girl would begging you not to do this to me fit for this?
Oh Paulina, you can certainly TRY! 😉 But something tells me by that time you are a weak submissive cream puff and you wouldn’t, you couldn’t beg us to stop. You’re enchanted.
I can see what kind of mood you’ve been in this week, Ms Erika – obviously you get quite a kick out of begging men! Well really, who doesn’t, but you might be at fetish level 😉 And a good begging affirmation is always a smart way for a submissive to start his calls with us.
LOL Oh Ms Claire, you got my number humm? I typically can’t shut up once I get going on a subject. So I often break it down to a few posts for that week. I admit, however, a good beg does get me GOING! Mmmmmmmm!