How will I Dominate you? Excellent question, glad you asked. How we play is based on your predilections and mine. Good news for you, my boundaries are wide! Chances are if you connect with me to talk about, or play with your kinky desires I’m going to be jumping in with two feet! I do have some no-go zones but don’t stress about it. I will let you know in a mature, professional way that “Erika doesn’t play like that”. All good, no harm no foul. No kink-shaming around here. Today I’m going to review some of the more popular types of Domination requested by my pets. “Requested, Erika? REQUESTED? They are submissives, they don’t get to REQUEST a damn thing!”
If this is what you are saying to yourself, my friend, you have a lot to learn! With this in mind, a few thoughts about Domination.
How Will I Dominate You
For those who are still reeling by my previous statement let’s get on the same page. Could Domination be total and complete? Could someone have total power over you, with you having zero input? Certainly and that is fodder for a different Dominatrix, a different time. The truth is even with TPE ethical people have negotiations with their partner, be it before “play” or as a natural part of their lifestyle. The submissive always has as much power in the scope of play as the Dominatrix. The Dominatrix takes their input and turns it into something magical for both of them. For me, there is no such thing as topping from the bottom, as long as we are in negotiations. You are free to say, whatever you like or don’t like what you are curious about, and what is on your no-fly list!
So with that bit of housekeeping taken care of, here are those most requested desires.
Cuckolding
Dominating you through cuckolding can take on many “looks”. From your traditional “my wife is fucking another person” and me training you one on one how to process and handle those emotions. How to be a better cuckold which can include chastity, feminization and so much more! Other less traditional cuckolds may be cuckolded by another woman. You are such a lousy lay, you have turned your wife GAY! (tongue firmly in cheek). Cuckolded by sex toys! Think about it. You are not competing with another person, she would prefer her RUBBER cock, to you! (daaaaaaaumn!). For cuckolding Domination, your submissive nature linked with the inevitable humiliation is a powerful combination!
Chastity
Many minds immediately move to “domination = caged cock”. It is a delicious option and an option that works well with Distance Domination! From blue tooth cages that Mistress can lock and unlock from her end. Numbered tags can be used and numbers verified with check-ins. There are also various types of lock boxes or basic freezing of the key deep inside a block of ice that we can use to keep you locked up. I have as much control over you as if she were right there.
Under some circumstances, I may consider no touching chastity.
Feminization
Your emasculation through feminization is how I will dominate the guys who desire to be gurls. You can feel your emasculation growing as your masculinity drips away. Your submission explodes as you don your panties at my behest, your bra slips around your chest, those stockings so long and silky tickling up your legs. Drives you wild. The humiliation and erotic play crossdressing is amazingly transformative. Drip Drip Drip. Bye-bye to your ego, say farewell to your manhood. You’re my gurl now.
Cockcontrol
Guided masturbation, jerk-off-instruction and even controlling when and how you orgasm are all parts of cock control. I tell you how to stroke, when to stroke. I will dominate your cock with edging, extreme edging with gooning sessions. Many who are addicted to my cock control venture to other parts of their anatomy. One reason why I differentiated chastity and cock control. Can cock control include chastity? Yes. Does it have to? No.
Elements Of The Domination
Impact-pain play and humiliation
With any of the types of Domination above, impact play, or pain play can be one of the elements Mistress uses to elicit those delicious reactions. This sexy activity can include nipple torment, spanking, CBT, and of course Humiliation which is “pain for your brain”.Hearing those searing words rip through you, you know these are your truths and they are so humiliating to be fed back to you, in the words of Mistress.
Domination Style
Each of these types of domination can come with one or more of the following elements, sensual domination, strict, mean, and everything in between! The best part of this is that you don’t have to decide “I want sensual domination now and forever”. Many Mistresses are more than able to show you their various styles. I am absolutely included! Many of my “sensual domination” pets, often “play with fire” and ask me to reduce the sensual and increase the strict, or mean Mistress in me. What a mind fuck to have it all in one session. Starting out sensual, getting that head spinning then “wham” flipping that switch and fucking up your head!
How I Will Dominate You?
Certainly, I can go on and on about various ways I will dominate you but the most important element in all of this is: YOU! Tell me about your domination journey. What types and styles of domination have you enjoyed? What types or styles are you interested in experiencing? Sound off below, or get your phone and dial 1-800-601-6975.
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Your Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Personally, I want to give my Mistress pleasure. It could be entertainment, arousal, satisfaction, stress relief or a number of things. Wanting to be wanted by my Mistress is my desire. To quote Cheap Trick, “I want you to want me.”
This desire fits very well into the endless cycle of whose wants come first, or are satisfied and is where having a creative, truely dominant, and incredibly talented Mistress, like you Mistress Erika, is needed. To be able to give the submissive what he or she wants, while that being something the Mistress wants, takes planning and really paying attention. If either side is “just going through the motions” or pretending, then it isn’t going to be satisfying for either side.
A submissive isn’t going to come back again and again to a Mistress that doesn’t fill their needs, even if they “want” to be humiliated or teased or tormented. I have come back to you, Mistress Erika, time and time again because you have always been able to satisfy those urges I have to serve and in ways that I didn’t think of. If you had simply “followed a script” that I layed out, it would get tiresome. Serving you has never been tiresome.
And having the understanding that when life gets in the way and saying, “this isn’t going to work for me today” your response of “no harm, do what you need to do, you can be mine later” has been a relief.
Thank you, Mistress Erika, for dominating me how you want, and I need.
Hello WS!
Wow what a lovely testimonial, Thank you! Your words of adoration and appreciation wrap me in their warmth! mm! Thank you! I’m an experienced, intelligent Woman
and I know that life, its challenges and stressors all play a part in our sexuality. I’m hardly going to get annoyed or upset when mother nature puts the kilbosh
on the sexy! IT HAPPENS!
Not to mention:
You are a delightful submissive and I know I will always be pleased, you perform your tasks with skill and success! I’m always pleased by your service, even if that means you stay denied and horny “by fate” tee hee😘
Long long long time and no calls Ms Erika!!! I’m hoping next month we can resume your feminization of me as your submissive/weak boy turned into your girlfriend!!! It’s been way way way too long! I’d like to have you and another mistress do this to me on regular basis/thinking either weekly/bi weekly for 30-45 minutes call. What are your thoughts about this? What mistress? Can’t wait to finally call you again!!!
Yay that’s fantastic! Welcome back to the fold, the Enchantrix fold! mmm I love it and there are a plethora of sexy Mistresses we can play with!
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Hi Goddess Erika. 🧎♂️🧎♂️ Very interesting post. I have changed over the last few years always struggling to find my place and comfort zone. I didn’t fond it until we started doing the dark room/ignore calls. I know it makes me weird but i am just so much more comfortable having sessions alone with your office in a dark room. It is also fair to have the door closed for my session just like every call has it that way. …👍 It was always a fantasy of mine to have calls centered on the two minute chime.
slave,
I am so glad you posted this. I am sure there are others out there similar to you, that struggle to find their purpose and place. Perhaps to the uninitiated your dark room sessions are “Weird” but when
you put it in context to who and what you are , it makes perfect sense. 😘😘 *ding*
LOL
In nutshell…(a very small nutshell Mistress Erika🤏) I must say you dominate me in every way.
Ever since I stammered and hyperventilated through our first call it was a forgone conclusion…(okay a three and a half gone conclusion) that I was “all in”!🤭 (You are?)
Do u or do u not love SPH self deprecating humour?!🤏
It thrills me to no end when you assign me a task.
You know each day I cannot wait to lock up your peanut.
Stepping into the panties of the day just reinforces my desires to be an obedient pet for my Mistress.
Yes, it is safe to say that your command is my wish, to borrow a phrase.
I am good to the last drop and adore being your gurl!🥰
Darling peg!
you always delight me with your words, happy clever and obedient, perfect for a sweet submissive (and very naughty) sissy gurllllll for me!
Please just Dominate me any way you like as long as it’s with NO Mercy!
My pleasure, prissy pants! 😘😘
In thong panties and chastity and preparing breakfast are I under dominance. What would you like for breakfast breakfast? Mistress Erika?
2 scrambled eggs, light and fluffy , yogurt (and NO I’m not talking sissy yogurt) and some fruit 😘😘
Done deal Publix yogurt fruit on the bottom and added some frozen berries. Do you like the size of my strawberries? Fresh farm raised pineapple 🍍🍍
Oh that kind of sissy yogurt. !🤔😊and Some fruit 😅😳
Done deal Publix yogurt fruit on the bottom and added some frozen berries. Do you like the size of my strawberries? Fresh farm raised pineapple 🍍🍍