Welcome to another edition of the Sexy Mistress Journal. This snapshot of my past looks at how sex games played a fun and important element in the developing dynamic of this relationship. I always receive a lot of positive feedback from this series, so here I am continuing the getting to know me segment of my blog. If this the first you’ve heard of the Sexy Mistress Journal series you can get caught up here: Sexy Mistress Journal 1 and here Sexy Mistress Journal 2 Follow Me. Just like in the first two installments , this one will give you a peek behind the scenes as I explore my emerging inner Femdom. A new and exciting developing dynamic of this relationship was so intoxicating, so fascinating I hope I do it justice in these posts. Enjoy.
Sexy Panties
During this time I was thrilled, and my interest in behavior what drives it and how it changes was piqued. Coercing him to wear panties more, worked! I’m a quick study and pushing his buttons to get the desired behavior started to become easier and easier. I wasn’t so concerned as to the panties he wore, now that I think of it. It was more that I could get him to do it, which made me happy. Making me, and keeping me happy started to be his main goal as well. Was it just the access to hot sex with someone 20 years his Jr? The kinky play? He was an adventurous man, and I was his first partner equally as adventurous.
Femdomm
It’s around this time I first heard the term Femdom. I pushed it from my mind, that wasn’t me. I thought: Femdom BDSM is that me? My impression was one of a a
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sexy woman, covered head to toe in leather, whips and assorted toys always popped into mind. I would think, did I want him restrained? Gag? Whipping, I didn’t think it appealed to me. Well, not all of it, and not just yet as it turns out. As it was, I didn’t give it much more thought. I dove into this relationship head first, with a consequences be damned attitude that you get with the foolish and the young.
Sexy Games
We routinely reserved Friday night as our night. We would go to dinner have some wine and talk about our erotic thoughts and what games we could play. I naturally started leading the way , as my suggestions and desires won out over his. He didn’t seem to mind, though and I always allowed him input. Looking back, this is the time were I started to play with control games, more and more.
Usually on a Friday night, establishments with cloth napkins and table cloths reaped the rewards of our patronage time and again.Teasing him under the table, with my hand or foot. Always discreet and only a bit of attention always resulted in a great response from him. I began to tease him about his secret exhibitionist desires. More sexy games and sending him on tasks to the men’s room was fun. One time I instructed him to edge three times, cool to the count of twenty come out without panties on. Oh, what fun that was!
Sex Games
Continuing the teasing at home with sex games, instructing him on how, when and where to stroke. I took great delight finding new and fun sex games that involved things for him to do, with his cock. Growing to love my control over his cock he also began to crave my control, over his cock. Edging games a personal favorite of mine. I love sex grunts and moans and he was delightful and verbal.
Eventually he confessed, once he relaxed and shed his programming: that he didn’t have to take on the leading role in the bedroom, he didn’t have to concern himself so much with taking charge and being in charge of my sexual satisfaction. He knew with my direction and his compliance my pleasure always came first. It was erotic for him, to just let go, give up, give in and enjoy the ride. I thought so too, and smiled to myself as in my mind I whispered to his, yes give up control , give up control to me. He had been sensitive at the mention of submissive roles in previous talks, but he’s coming along nicely isn’t he? No need to push too much, too far, too soon. Right?
Sexy Mistress Journal
I wasn’t sure about where this line of stories would go. But as I write each update, I remember more I want to share. Perhaps I should create a page, and update it monthly with the continuing saga of your Sexy Mistress, Erika! Feel free to drop me a message, shre your thoughts on this or, well any naughty thoughts! Erika@EnchantrixEmpire.com
That’s hot how you corced him into panties!!! Did you have him wear bra/dresses? My masseuse corced me into wearing drsssss and I did fashion show for her yesterday. It was so hot how she did this to me as I can’t say no to her. Like you with your sissy I’m
her cream puff. This was dream come true for me. She mentioned last week she thought about me in dress and when we go shopping later this year she wants me to wear dress as I’ll be buying lipsticks/perfumes/lotions/along with getting makeover. We also ordered dress that she wants me in along with women’s tank & halter tops she wants me to wear when weather warms up along with skinny slacks. She also wants to barrow one of my dresses for her sons wedding in August which she invited me to. After yesterday I belong to her which I’m more then fine with. She has her nails firmly dug into me along with myself wrapped around her finger and I don’t want her to ever let me go
Petey, thanks for your update , regarding your delicious account of your feminization. You never fail to paint a pretty picture of you and the goings on with your Masseuse
With this now happening I’m her cream puff girl. She told me how cute & adorable I look and she wants to barrow one of my dresses for her sons wedding which she invited me to in August. She also corced me into buying women’s tank & halter tops along with dress she wants me to wear when we go shopping. She said she was thinking about me wearing a dress as I have perfect build to wear that and women’s clothes. I was told she wants me to buy lipsticks/perfumes/lotions and get makeover done to me. She’s going to out me as her cream puff girl when she’s turned me into. I can’t go back now as she has pictures of me in dresses and I belong to her as she can hit send anytime. I’m her property as her sissy girl forever.
Great great stuff Erika. I have often thought that if I started to experience a dom submissive relationship in real life, this would be how. And in a certain sense it tracks the distant relationship with my LDW Mistress – the assignments, the discovery by both of you, the gradual evolution, the growing need and acceptance. Truly a journey worth reading about. And thank you for showing in a really well done way the kind of d/s relationship that has nothing to do with whips, chains, or humiliation. I’m absolutely looking forward to the next chapter.
BFLA ,thank you for the kind words. I’m glad you are enjoying my journey! As I reflect on the events I’m reminded of a quote I heard somewhere. Probably social media, but rings just as true: All journeys have secret destinations of which the traveler is unaware. Martin Buber
Hi Mistress Erika, this was a great post. D/S can be much more than whip and chains. To me it involves a submissive giving up control one way or another to a Dominant.
Tiny, loved our call. 😉 You are delightful
Edging games you say?
I’m so glad that is a personal favorite…
I love edging games with the right participant. 😉 https://intelligentphonefantasy.com/noisy-sex/ what say you , bill?
I say let the games begin…