Training your kink. I had a insightful email recently asking if I would be interested in training with a particular kink.I replied with an emphatic: YES! Training and exploring your kinky predictions is one of my favorite things to do! Because of his inquiry, I thought I’d put it out there as a reminder, for interested eyes, of the kinks I’ve had some fun with. Don’t despair if you don’t see your kink listed, just hit me up in an email and we’ll discuss!
Cock Sucker Training
Informal or regimented training your kink, your oral fixation, will certainly get a work out with me! Learning to appreciate the various ways your mouth can please a cock. Some of you have only had fantasies about it, never uttering your naughty secret to anyone. Others are well on their way, exploring orally pleasing one or more cocks! Where ever you land on the cocksucker continuum we’ll have fun! Check out a fun post about cock sucker training.
Feminization Training
From pantie play to drag queen “wild” we’ll tease that girl inside outside! So many ways to work on your girly journey. Not sure of your feminine style? We’ll go shopping! But it can be so much more! You might have a lot of questions regarding your feminine feelings, like: If you are feeling feminine does that mean you’re gay? Does your desire to explore you femininity mean you are transgender?

Training Your Kink
Perhaps you can explore only in fantasy, as many do. Others have more ability to dress, wax have mani-pedi’s and more! Let’s talk about your boundaries for your feminine training and create a lesson plan to make you the best “you” can be!
Foot and Body Worship
Learning to appreciate every soft curve, every feminine nuance to stoke the fires of your interests and explode your kink. I can train you for foot service, leg , ass ,breast- you get the idea! I’ll create a lesson plan so you may fully express your love of a particular body part or all! Training your cock to respond, desire, focus and only release when told. If you’re a good boy, perhaps On that body part? (yea, I read your mind, naughty!) We’ll see.
Chastity
Chastity training, Everyone has reasons why they should be in chastity. What are yours? I have some reasons of my own why every male should try chastity at some point in his life. Will I lock you up and allow a yearly cum? Perhaps once a month? Week? That remains to be seen. I’d love to chat with you about your thoughts and feelings on chastity.
Submissive Training
That’s right you read it correctly: Submissive Training. Many think they know what it is to be submissive. Many are right. However I encounter men every day who think kneeling and begging is all that there is to be done! Although, admittedly, those are some sexy and arousing images it’s not all there is about being a submissive. What is your experience ? Your idea of what being a submissive looks like? Don’t worry if you are new, I’ll take it slow. Mmm, real slow like I do with some of my Cock Control games. Cock control is a gateway activity to your submission. Read more about my thoughts on the subject with my Guided Masturbation post
What You Can Expect
I’m a sensual Dominant Woman, training your kink is a lot of fun for me! I work hard along with you to help you reach your goals. I find it very rewarding. So when I give instructions I expect them to be followed. Simple as that. I don’t expect you to do poorly, but if you do there are consequences. Since I’m such an amiable person generally, I don’t take kindly to insolence and feel you’ve taken advantage of My good nature.
Basically: Don’t screw up or you will see a whole different dimension of me.
With that said, some of you do require a firm and strict nature. I can provide ten fold. This is where our “getting to know you” emails and sessions come in. We will devise a lesson plan based on your boundaries. No ” How to Whip Up a Sissy” manual here! Are you able to email? Text sessions only? These are all particulars we’ll discuss. Also, with any training there will be tests and challenges. Both negative and positive punishment for failures. Rewards for success. Simple concepts, but a bit more complex to administer.
So what kind of training are you interested in?
Until We Chat ????
Mistress Erika
Yes MISTRESS ERIKA you are a incredibile teacher .Very INTELlGENT ,great writer great communicater.Yes MISTRESS ERIKA i would be very intrested in signing up for some of your training .
ted, my dear you are sure in need of some intelligent Femdom Help! I know hanging around here, you are going to get it! I have you down for Cheer Camp and I think 2019 is going to be very busy for you!
Goddess Erika, You are great. is this training similar to some of the things we have done? How do You know when a submissive requires a firm and strict nature? Which You can provide ten fold. All of this is why You are a great dominant.
tftt, why of course! We have more of an informal regime which is fine. Men typically “know themselves” and the tell me, I’m an ass and I don’t follow through” or some such thing.
Another would be proving to me by your inaction, when given assignments. You always come through and do as told. I do like getting rough with you but you are such a tiny button of a man, I’m still testing to see how much you CAN take! ha ha! I don’t wanna brweak the widdle button, noooooo
Goddess Erika, Submissive training really interests me. Just wonder how far that training can go.
For me it’s continuing feminization training with you and the other mistresses as I want to add more mistresses to program. Also I believe cock control/and being more submissive. With pictures I send you of me dressed up I really do look better dressed as a girl then I do as a guy. Why fight/resist and say to this? I can’t:( :0 also if you can help me with ideas of how I can get my masseuse to become more mistressy with me would be great!!! I really want to be in female lead relationship with her keeping me in bra/panties. Im goingbto ask if she wants to go with me to place where ladies do male to female transformation with makeup/dressing me up/put wig//lipstick on me and take pictures when done. In next 2 weeks I’m gettinv waxed from her and she told me to bring blouses she had me buy to take pictures of me with her phone and I’m going to wear my makeup/lipstick bra/breast forms/wig & lipstick and tell her I want to see how I look dressed up as a girl and get more in touch with my feminine side. After much thought this is what I want.
you have it Paulina, your training has been amazing! So great to be part of that journey!
This post just kept getting better paragraph by paragraph! Yes.. to cocksucking training! Yes… to Sissy and chastity training! ( And cumming once a year would be more generous than i deserve!) Yes…to body worship (as i kneel and kiss your feet) Yes…to CBT, discipline and FIRM, strict training …ten fold! I have had the honor of serving in all these ways and can’t wait to do so again! Thank you Mistress!
princess, why you are just a barrel of kinky fun. I so enjoy our sessions as you prove to be a very well trained sissy cuckold slut! Loved pushing those boundaries recently………. 😉
Ms. Erika, I was wondering about the f*****l domination kink. A lot men have that.
Subboy, thank you for your comment. A very particular fetish, and I can see the attraction to it for both sides.
I can’t say it’s something I will inspire or require.
I’d be interested in speaking with you further about this.
All of this is a must for the underendowed micro soft penises of the world
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Caged plugged and ready to suck
but of course! ha ha!
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