3 reasons why you will love my cock control. Of course, there could be endless reasons why you will love my cock control. But this isn’t war and peace, and people have things to do. Speaking of which, I have a very special task for you, at the end. So two fingers only, and let’s get this hot n hard subject underway.
You Will Love My Cock Control- Reason One
My love of controlling that cock, and my enthusiasm for our play can be intoxicating, so I’ve been told. They are not wrong, I love to control cocks, will yours be one of them? I’m delighted you can feel my energy, and passion for our play! Some have thanked me for my casual and natural ability to put you at ease. It can take just a few minutes, or even longer if you prefer. Those moments will ensure a good time will be had by all. During those few minutes, with targeted questions, I get to find out about you and your interests and experiences. Then we’ll both have a good time.
You see, just like any aspect of kinky play, and especially BDSM, there is the need for negotiation. Setting boundaries on both sides ensure a fantastic experience for us both. But that’s not to say boundaries won’t be pushed or adjusted as we dance. It is pretty common, that we evolve, and change as we play. True, not all people follow the same path, that would be boring! This brings us to reason two.
Reason Two
With me, you have a safe place to explore. Your sexual boundaries do not have to have too many limits. What limits you have today, may not hold true tomorrow. it’s a fantastic thing that happens when you are encouraged to explore, sometimes demanded to or required to, depending on our particular relationship. In addition, you wrap all of this with a non-judgemental environment where you remain a valued playmate, with no fear of rejection for simply having, or developing a less-than-mainstream desire.
After All
You wouldn’t be the first JOI/Guided masturbation fan to click with the right Mistress, or Mistresses and find yourself on an erotic journey you’ll never forget. Today you are stroking or using toys as Mistress instructs. Learning how to edge and edge a lot. Increasing your stamina and successfully stave off that orgasm until I release you. You learn, firsthand the magic of ruined orgasms, and (gasp!) even venture into chastity lock-up! The kinky sky is the limit, where will this lead?
For some, It happened inch by inch, bit by bit (pun totally intended). You learn to trust through the fun we have. Your open mind leads to you opening up your boundaries inch by inch exploring anal stimulation in new ways. Prostate massagers you were used to, vibrators, cock-rings are all part of the play.
One thing after another, time fly’s by, and soon you find your boundaries widen. For some reason, you are turned on by my strap-on and we dance our way into strap-on play. You might even think that all of these changes were your idea. Nice. This is where I guided us, this is our dance. Where to next?
Erotic Humiliation
Some as they evolve in their sexual life, when combined with the right partner, find a dash of erotic humiliation is a turn-on. The sting of humiliation is more erotic than hurtful when you trust and admire your humiliatrix. Humiliation or rather harsh humiliation wasn’t a real big YES PLEASE for you, but of course, there’s a “bit” of implied humiliation. After all, a macho American heterosexual presenting male doesn’t beg for an orgasm or wear Mistress’s panties, do they? But these are all ways you’ve pleased Mistress, my sexy slut.
I know I increased the humiliation, bit by bit, drop by drop making sure to take advantage of your vulnerable states while you were high on an edging kite. So I teased and pushed and give you a few, suggestions. Some might call them triggers. So when I playfully or commandingly, call you slut, it hurts so fucking good. it’s baffling on some level, why does My cock twitch, and yearn for naughty words?
You’ve focused, you’ve learned, a good pet So much so when you hear my tone change, perhaps to a sensual purr, there’s always that subconscious lesson that makes my cock tingle, not only for the seductive tease but because you know I can switch that up, and roll easily between a calm cool yet demanding Mistress to the delighted lover seducing you to hold that cum for me. Wavering back and forth, in and out of erotic scenes as you learn to goon, and having you edge my cock until your mind is mush. Sweet whispers flow into your brain: you’re fantastic you slut you’ll eat that cum for me, won’t you?
It didn’t take long, did it? Not in the grand scheme of things, anyway. What a journey, now you’ve proven you will do anything for me. Your need to please, and to serve is strong. A man eating his own cum, what perverse disgusting thing is this? Right. Well, perhaps you were close to that mindset, anyway. right? Either way. You have made me very proud. I couldn’t be more pleased, and you know it.
Reason Three Why You Will Love My Cock Control Is you
Although I talk today in general teasing terms. Did you see yourself in my words have a similar experience? Perhaps you feel I have referenced you in this post? Does anything sound familiar? Similar desires but so dissimilar in play, because of you.
One thing I relish is what – you – bring to my table. Do I control lots of cocks? I sure do, but you are the only one with your cock! Your sense of humor, your cleverness, and your uniqueness. Over time you’ll share other interests with me, other than cock control. Learning about you, creating a connection where I know every button to push, and delight in changing things up and challenging you!
There’s no script I run by or must have’s or do’s. Enjoying the journey with you, guiding, and learning together. That cannot be duplicated or replicated it will lack an important element: You.
It’s fun for me to be in tune with you, use my skills to help anyone achieve explosive orgasms, and explore your limits. Improve your stamina, or whatever propels us together.
Let’s enjoy as much as we can, for the short time we have. Open up your sexual boundaries and enjoy all that this human existence can offer us!
Now For Your Task – Tell Me
I want to know, my posts of late have been quite involved, over 900 words. Do you enjoy the longer “fleshed out” posts or is your brain more amenable to shorter 600 or so words? Or does it not matter? The second task is what is on your sexual bucket list!? I want to know. Leave a comment below.
Until we chat ????
Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress, Erika
Another wonderfully teasing post, Mistress. Hints, and references to playing, brief descriptions of the things you do, or have done do exactly what you title refences. It controls your cocks, whether in session, or on your blog, EE, twitter, etc etc. You have them (at least this one) jumping through hoops.
From my perspective, one of the the things that has kept me coming back, is the negotiation and the learning. And the boundary pushing, but not always to go further and further. Sometimes we find a boundry that isn’t pleasurable, or the right kind of painful, to push and you embrace that. You know you could go down a path not traveled (and not particulary welcome), but you don’t. It doesn’t mean that direction isn’t closed for good, it might get gently poked in the future, teased for the sake of reminding, but not not crossed.
Length of post determines when and how I can respond. Something longer than this would be read at a time and place where I can settle in and relax. Shorter can be a quick distraction with a reply. So an answer, doesn’t matter to me.
What’s on my sexual bucket list? What haven’t I tried with you that I’d still want to is a short list (if at all). Remote control toys is something I haven’t done yet…emphasis on yet.
Thank you WS, for stopping by and contributing your wonderful thoughts! I also appreciate your answering my questions and with your suggestion of the remote control toys…. well you have me salivating, in all areas you naughty F! Yaaaaaaaaaaaaay!
Ms Erika,
I loved this post!
You have a way with words.
Even though we have just begun our “cock control” journey together, I can already feel the connection between us. It’s so true how personal chemistry and connections are so important.
1) I find myself liking the more detailed posts, but as long as it is interesting the length (pun?) or detail doesn’t matter too much to me
2) my bucket list?! Hmmmm?
I guess I’d like to see my wife suck a big cock in front of me while I’m locked up ???? do I join in? ????
Hey Andrew! Thank you for stopping by! I’m thrilled you like my writing, thoughts, and *wink* teases. Wow cuckie, that is a powerful scene you described!
Do you join in? Well, that’s up to her,submissive.until then you get to kneel nearby, naked straining against that cage with your hands obediently folded behind your back.
Good boy.
Great post.. and you are indeed an Master at cock control… I guess for me it’s how well you seem to read us .. and then how you both quickly take control while intuitively reading what our denied/teased/humiliated/locked or pussyfree place should be……and then making sure we never forget it!…. Oh My!
LOL Oh prissy! your “OHMY” is adorable you little sissy slut! Thanks for stopping by!
Mistress Erika..have I done this all ass backwards?
Re-Reading back to front about the possible progression of cock control I can’t help but think this is the case.
I began with panties, strap on play, worked my way back to prostate massagers, (or is that UP?). Then on to chastity and THEN the beloved magical Ruined Orgasm….(just can’t wrap my hand…I mean head around that term,
I don’t consider it ruined at all)
Nonetheless it is not the destination Mistress, but the journey itself!
As for us and our journey, relinquishing ownership to you has been so rewarding and fulfilling for me.
You are quite flexible and yet expect results when I am tasked with an assignment, and as such it gives me all the motivation needed to please you.
Eagerly each morning I lock up your little piece of property before the sun rises…or anything else, for that matter! The pleasure of knowing I am spending another day under your ownership is immeasurable.
Now I suppose it’s inevitable that “length” would figure in here somewhere…
Certainly, being as verbose as I am with my comments, I can understand that complex topics such as above cannot be described in a few paragraphs.
The more you write, the more we learn. You have a wealth of knowledge about our little dalliances and preferences.
“Write On” Mistress Erika!
There is one last thing though, I should mention.
I feel somewhat unqualified to opine on a blog about Cock Control.
Seeing as how what I lock up could hardly be considered a “cock” my ramblings may be viewed as coming up short!
Thank you Mistress Erika❤️
The perfect demonstration of what I was saying! although elements may be similar, each one of my kinky snowflakes makes it unique to us!
Thanks for stopping by little peg! Your words of adoration wash over me like a warm blanket. ????
Wow ???? you have a way with words Misstress Erika . My preference is you can make your blog any length you desire. After all you are in control of everything.
????????Thank you for stopping by and adding to the convo AST!
Hi Goddess Erika, Good post. I like pee-pee control but mainly chastity.????♂️????♂️????♂️ Some males really need permanent chastity as it puts them in line and means there won’t be any chronic masturbating.
You are right slave, some penis creatures should ONLY be locked up *looks directly at your crotch* they are worthless, anyway
Erika, the length of posts don’t matter you always do an amazing job with them.
I did feel you were referencing me in this post.
As for second assignment I guess it would be to do a 2 enchantix call so you could show off just how much I’ve grown in our journey.
Always love serving you.
Always love pleasing you.
ALWAYSERIKA
My darling pet! Thank you for stopping by! You know you inspire me, don’t you? love it! Can’t wait to show you off!
Thank you so much Erika you are so amazing.
My dear Headmistress Erika,
I absolutely adore your long posts. It hypnotizes me when you share your thoughts, as you know so well :).
I’m back but have neither a phone nor access to my kinky email. I’m working on it and it’s killing me that I can see that you’re available now but I have no way of contacting you other than to post a comment here.
And now I can feel your humiliating smirk…
“Aw peewee, that’s such a shame. I don’t know what that’s like because I have plenty of playmate to talk to, and THEY pay ME to have fun hahahahahahaha!”
If nothing else, I hope that you will enjoy having a good laugh at my frustration. I’ll go and stand in front of the mirror now to remind myself why you are my Headmistress.
P.S. I hadn’t realized that the blogspot was being transcribed and published in print on the internet. I think you know what I’m talking about. My ears are beet red.
And yes, Headmistress Erika, I will lick it all up.
Love,
peewee
My My my look who is back. How absolutely appropriate to come groveling back and posting on my blog. You’re right peee weeeeee, great entertainment from a denied pussyboi!
On your knees bitch! ????
Thank you, my Headmistress. I get such a rush submitting to you. I shouldn’t. I should push back and be a man. But I can’t resist it. I am weak and submissive to you. I’m dripping at the thought of your cruel laughter…
Ha!
1- lick it up
2- present asshole
I’m on my knees with my legs spread wide so you can give me a good, swift kick in the balls and laugh when I thank you for it.
“Thank you, Headmistress Erika.”
LOL Brilliant!
Mistress Erika checks her phone for something as she grows quiet and her cruel laughter turns into an even more cruel smirk.
A smirk that makes me wonder if it’s all getting too real; and it’s though she can sense exactly that, so she gives me a “tough luck” shrug of her shoulders and a truly condescending smile.
I’ve fallen on my side, recoiling in pain, and am stuck with my wrists tied to my ankles behind my back. It’s probably not a good time to have second thoughts.
Then I hear someone come in the front door. We hadn’t discussed anything like this.
“Showtime, peewee…”
Brava ! Slut……. you managed to make me laugh……. at your humiliated state
You make me feel very insecure about my penis size. Although I can’t deny that I have good reason to be insecure about it since
I HAVE A VERY SMALL PENIS
Why do I get so wet when you humiliate me? I can’t resist coming back for more. I just want to get on my knees and lap it all up for you.
Hello, you six-foot-something DEMURE penis holder! Tis true tis true,you know you do not measure up never have never will! Well wait, would using a strap-on or penis sleeve count? Haha, Imagine that…The only time you’d “measure up” is if you put a decent prosthetic dick over that inchworm you carry about.
Why do you get so wet? Cause you are a little bitch, that’s why. ????
Bucket list some how I missed thinking about that ???? . On the first reading. Cock control. That issue is a mute point because it ( the cock) does absolutely nothing anymore except shrinking and refilling with a little bit offlow. It would take a really enthusiastic partner to start it into any kind of action. Mick Jagger sings at the end of the song Start Me Up. You make a dead man cum. It used to be the little head did the thinking for the big head. Now the little head has nothing to think about. The big head now does all the thinking for the little head. My bucket list is seeing you turn heads wearing a swim suit watching men and women reaction to that body of yours.