Harsh Humiliation Sessions are not uncommon, so when I realized I hadn’t written about humiliation in a while I gave myself a stern talking-to and swift swats! Only kidding, but I was gobsmacked! Humiliation calls of all varieties are popular here at the Empire! I know I’ve talked before about the whys and wherefores of humiliation but seeing I was so naughty and it’s been a while we’ll start with a Humilation recap!
How Can I Humiliate You, I Don’t Even Know You
Just that one line, how can I humiliate you if I don’t know you, speaks volumes. Humiliation is very subjective and has limitless subjects, styles, and types of humiliation play! What is humiliating for one person, may not be humiliating for another. For example, If someone called me a dirty little slut. I just might laugh and say Thank you! I wouldn’t be humiliated by their declaration. Why? My default process is: are they even adept enough to make that evaluation? What’s their worth to me, are they even worthy enough for me to care about their opinion? Second, I don’t see a damn thing wrong with being a dirty little slut when I chose to be. You’re just annoyed I’m not that slut with you!
But that’s me. Many people would be horrified to be seen as a dirty slut to anyone! They might agree secretly, to themselves, that they consider their desires or behavior as slutty. However for another person to hold their truths up to them, those secret thoughts move from embarrassment to humiliation. Embarrassment is something you do to yourself, you drop a cup or trip on the carpet. Humiliation is when someone deliberately does something to hurt you.
Therefore with any humiliation session, I need to get to know you. Or you need to say “This or that”, really is a fantastic virtual kick in the nuts, for me, Mistress.” The humiliation I offer in sessions is often referred to as erotic humiliation.
Erotic Humiliation vs Other Humiliation
I hear you saying “Isn’t humiliation, humiliation”? Yes and no, when we feel humiliated, just like physical pain play our bodies come to our defense! Dumping a cocktail of hormones to help you process what is happening, to help manage the pain response, and to lessen it. Everyday Humiliation, being called out in a meeting for poor performance was meant to hurt you and motivate you to the behavior they want from you, having your loved one find you fully feminized and seeing the shock and look on their face, their screams of disbelief in fantasy may be hot hot hot, but for those who have experienced it “real-time” not so much. Oh sure you have the same responses, but it “hits” differently.
Erotic Humiliation is humiliation but the goal is to arouse you, to purposely hurt and arouse you. Not for other purposes. I see humiliation as a play device, just like a vibrator or other sexual aid, it’s used to arouse and yes sometimes control. Once the scene is done, aftercare reassures them they are ok, that I care and appreciate them “Going there for me”. We are now two people who like each other’s company and what I humiliated you “OVER” or “WITH” is in the past. I don’t see YOU “as your humiliation”. If I humiliated you over being a little dick loser, you just may have a little dick, nothing I can say or do will change that, but I won’t necessarily see you as a LOSER! In addition and with few exceptions, won’t humiliate you over your dick outside of the session.
Harsh Humiliation Sessions [sliding down that rabbit hole]
A preponderance of humiliation addicts (just like with any drug) become desensitized to a certain level or style of humiliation. What once was a “zinger” is more like a tickle. What happens is over time their brain needs more and more of the “drug” of humiliation to get the same explosive result. Therefore at the beginning of their journey, someone points and giggles with a comment like “Is that all you have”, about his “manhood”, the response is like the fourth of July. We have explosions and eruptions a-plenty! So slut explores and experiences a similar level and style of humiliation, and ends up chasing a bigger high. What is that bigger high? Depends, but usually it equates to expanding the field of play, or an adjustment in styles of humiliation. Going from teasing and sensual to a more intense style. Many find themselves in the deep end of the pool. Remember one of those exceptions I mentioned above?
Here is one such example: LTSC, PW, or known around Enchantrix by many humiliating monikers. This is his mindset today, decades of humiliation “therapy” as he likes to call it. He was referring to my post When a Submissive Trusts a Mistress
I am continually drawn back to the power of this blog post’s title. The power that a beautiful, intelligent Mistress like you has over the submissive mind is frightening…and frighteningly addictive.Even typing this, I can hear you laughing out loud when you read this. It’s genuine laughter, which makes it more demoralizing…and arousing.I become a little more frightened of and a little more intimidated by you with each session.And our relationship is truly built on sessions; to refer to them merely as calls would undermine the therapeutic impact on me. And regardless of my opinion on that matter, I am all too aware that you would not tolerate that attitude.
I trust you implicitly, Headmistress Erika, and I fear you tremendously.
It is my privilege to be one of your many faithful sad sack subbies.
For This Particular Humiliation Addict
The journey is pretty far down the rabbit hole, starting (as most do) very early. His brain and his loins experience giggling, insulting comments, and smirks when many knew and gossiped about his tiny member.
Here are just a few things this
slut has done chasing that humiliation high.
In the beginning with his most obvious (or not ha!) point of shame, his tiny dick. I hesitate to even call it a dick, it’s more a clit and belongs in panties. I digress.
He was involved in a long-term relationship where a little small cock hitched his caboose to the humiliation train, cross-dressing, humping stocking-covered legs, and getting pegged like the bitch he is!
She took him along on a lady’s night out at the male strip club. Not because she wanted his company,.But to humiliate and use his money to pay for lap dances for her and her girlfriends while sad sack subbie looking on wondering if that could be him GETTING lap dances if he had an ounce of MAN or a decent cock between those legs! His journey is replete with humiliation scenes and tasks. Don’t feel sorry for him, trust me he was a dripping little faucet in his panties and pantyhose under his slacks.
Another Few Rungs Down That Submissive Humiliation Rabbit Hole
Now down that rabbit hole a bit more, he had the luck of meeting me. A safe place to be an exposed bitch. Sounds counterintuitive, doesn’t it? This is what is important. Having that trusted humiliatrix who gets her OWN high from bossing you around, where all my cylinders are firing rapidly, it’s my legal high too! I don’t like to break my toys and give up the power you’ve so willingly surrendered to me. So regardless of how real the intimidation seems, ultimately I won’t destroy you if you are fun to be around and mind your P’s and Q’s.
You see when you play fast and loose with humiliation you might find yourself in a real scenario that will impact your work-a-day world forever, to avoid that mess, you come to me. I absolutely will make you feel it’s very real, as I excel at Blurring the Lines between fantasy And Reality
It’s Just Too Graphic
NE way getting back to little t. I am covering up that filthy rabbit hole that I was considering opening up but decided with prudent judgment not to. You see, he was tasked to write a blog about his exploits with me, that I would roll out here, but after reviewing and considering all things the list and phrasing contain things that are way over the top for my R-rated blog! Such depravity should be held close to the vest. However, I’ll be happy to share some of what’s in that document in a session.
[No tiny tommy it’s your tough luck. You lose again, and I don’t want to hear from you. You and I both know the rules and “you should have thought about that before”.
*smug look* Good sit there and shut up, just like in session with one of my Mistress friends.]
Little tommy loves to be bullied by women, so If you were to say, I’m humiliating pee-wee, LTSC, sad sack subbie all over again, with this post, You would be right! it’s fun and demonstrative! (insert laughing here) I rarely can share with you some of the people, I’ve enjoyed time with and discuss their particular kink. I certainly can’t write about everyone, it’s not physically possible. Not to mention not everyone would want me to! I honor and respect the boundaries of those I play with. But when I can bring you, give you a peek at this side of the phone I will! I’m sure the p-ster is delighted his discomfort helps me and gives him a quick swift kick in his sad sack sissy nuggets.
Don’t Bombard Me With “ME ME ME” Please
This blog begins a series of blogs I’ll be writing this year, about various people with whom I’ve received permission. I think it helps those considering this type of play a really gives you a rich example of the experience you will
have with me. By no means does your request to be talked about on my blog result in any absolutes on my part. Just that I would consider it. If you don’t session with me now, you can begin now. I won’t speak about your “cold”, and if you are new to me, Mmm probably not for a while. My list is long for those clamoring for their 15 seconds of fame on my blog, and you will be patient. I must have a great deal of trust in you and with you before I make my final decision. little tommy has been Enchantrix’s and My little slut for a long time
WTF Is Wrong With You
From my perspective, I don’t see a damn thing “Wrong with you” we are aroused by what we are aroused by! Play smart, play safe, and let’s roll. But if you find your craving for humiliation is impeding other things in your life, if you ignore other parts of your life or find your self-esteem in the tank, then we need to talk about that as well. If your desires are just too damn risky and very well can wind you up in jail, Stop. Breathe and let’s move in a different direction. But just by the very nature of liking humiliation, there’s nothing wrong with you and we can talk about that as well a bit more in-depth, in session.
Until I Humiliate You
Your Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress
I enjoyed this post Goddess Erika. Another very lucky pet. 🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️ I know i could be wrong but i still think that dark room sessions are the most humiliating but don’t know if it is harsh humiliation. In these sessions i don’t even get talked to as a caller. Actually you treat me like i don’t even exist.
You are right slave, ignore calls are the harshest, as it is considered on the “neglect” play spectrum. In some ways beta bitch little tommy is just above you on the pyramid.
I am acutely aware that you do exist, however and it brings a smile and a certain satisfaction to me knowing you are only there to serve, and serve how it most pleases me
Hi Goddess Erika, Very interesting point. Then again everyone is likely above me on the pyramid. 🧎♂️🧎♂️🧎♂️ I consider myself more of a sub beta then a beta. This was one of the factors that led me to dark room sessions. Thanks for training me to serve you. Even if that service is for 6+ hours.
subbeta! I love that monkier for you! it’s my pleasure to have you serve me!
You bring up a very important point, Mistress Erika. The rabbit hole and lead you to a place where a blurred line becomes real, and not in a situation that you want it to. Over time we get comfortable with a pushed limit, and the limit moves further. If we don’t look at where we started and keep perspective then it could lead to behaviors spilling out to audiences that shouldn’t.
Having an knowledgable, and understanding audience like yourself is important. I have experienced your abililty to have someone push their limits, but keep it controlled, by you, and at your pace.
I have experienced your use of humiliation. You have made me do things that should shame me if people knew. Things that are very unnatural to my personality but that played on one part that you know I have. The need to please and obey you. So I will dance, perform, in the atire, or lack of, that you chose. Swallow my pride. Let the part of me that wants to serve be my priority, and serve.
It didn’t happen immediately, you led me there, delibrately and skillfully. Thank you, Mistress Erika.
Thank you WS! You bring up a very good point yourself, how Mistress can both moderate (to keep your fanny out of jail) and enhance those feelings of humiliation!
I’m very proud and pleased by your service to me. I find you extremely willing to do my bidding, amuse and arouse as the case may be, putting aside your own
trepidation for My Pleasure! Thank you, and thank you for taking the time to leave this note!
i am defeated.
Thank you, Headmistress Erika.
i have a small penis.
Thank you for laughing at me, Headmistress Erika.
i am a humiliation slut.
Thank you, Headmistress Erika.
Good slut, I’m talking to you now but it’s hard to understand you , that cock in your mouth is in the way!
I love sucking cock for you, Headmistress Erika!
My little 3 incher is getting rock hard for you, my Headmistress.
3″ I can’t even see it, are you sure it’s hard? Maybe you need to suck some more cock and make it bigger so my eyes can see it #Inniebellybuttondick
You are like a drug, Headmistress Erika.
I love the way that you walk all over me.
Careful of that stilettoed heel it might find its way into one of your juicy holes!
My absolute favorite… and you have so much to work with humiliating wise with me! NO
Mercy please !
Oh prissy aka dickless, you thrive on humiliation and If my memory serves you were a spanking good time , last session! TEE HEE
#NoMercy
When I first started chatting with you Misstress Erika. I was interested in you as a man but now look what you have done to me ?😱😳🤔 I was an Elegant crossdresser now I have only panties and a few small women’s swim suits bottoms do have discreet manners and wear only at an isolated place and yes I am pussy free and so far every dick is larger than my clitty. Women have texted me and showed me photo of their clitties being larger than mine
LOL OH April, OMG!
I still can’t get over how humiliating this post is, Headmistress Erika. I go back and forth between being uncontrollably turned on and absolutely terrified that you’ve outed me. I am such a pathetic little panty boy weakling.
*boo hoo* have a little dick *boo hoo* I love humiliation *boo hoo* but wait that’s too much humiliation!?! Suck it up buttercup, short dick men like you
deserve NO MERCY! Now: Kiss my ass! 🍑😘
Oh. My. Goodness. Thankfully LTSC alerted me to this amazing blog post so that I could also relish and enjoy his very public continued humiliation. Oh Mistress Erika you have so much ammunition against this sad sac and I just love to see you utilizing it at your discretion. I’ve also made LTSC verbally repeat the name of your blog ten times during our session because somehow; he forgot. How could he forget intelligentphonefantasy.com???? His subconcious is programmed to get him into trouble!
LOL OMG Ms Scarlet! Thanks for stopping by and ganging up on poor itty bitty peewee! LOL He’s in Sooo Much Trouble, how many times has he visted, left comments
and couldn’t remember the NAME?!!shameful, pee wee! But I heard you made him repeat the name of the blog over and over so when his little inch worm
gets all excited (I would say HARD but, yea doesn’t matter hard soft no woman’s gonna want it!) and his last two brain cells (from all that gooning) slips below
the equator and into the head of that micro dick! hahahah! Glad you had fun, you are part of the “Dream team” to keep this pud puller in LINE!
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Dear Headmistress Erika,
I am very sorry that I didn’t remember the name of your blog. I typed that 10 times while holding my dildo in my mouth and I hope people are laughing me while they read this.
I will send you a picture to show you how wet my peach panties got while I was reading the comments from Mistress Scarlet and you. I typed this reply with a dildo in my mouth because I’m a short-dicked little loser crossdresser cuckold bitch who loves to suck cock for you.
Nothing makes me happier than gagging on a dildo to the music of your mocking laughter.
Love,
peewee
LOL!!
I loved “until I humiliate you” phrase so much
I agree with you mistress Erika that humiliation depends
I’m into humiliation and really love it like nothing else. it embraces my femininity and my position as a submissive
as a sissy I love to be called and treated like a slut, bitch, pussy, cunt, whore, piece of sh1t i.e
also I loved pee wee and the whole conversation. so cute
Lol
I guess B is for Bitch
yes I happily am a big one 😂
with tiny body though
you may be easily able to hold me with your bare hands like a toy 🤗 and fuck the shit outa me
psst: you might hint my clit size
you’re so fun here
and thanks for your nice reply
with love💝💗💓💖
Amanda
😍😘👍OH WOW!
Oh My tiny little sissy bitch? Tee hee NIIIIIIIICE
I dropped by the website to have a glance and reading that was like, “Oh hi peewee, how’s every LITTLE thing today? “.
Now I’m in sheer black bikini panties (and I still don’t make much of an impression…)
. I absolutely AM a little bitch!
LTSC , the pantyhose wearing bitch WOO HOO!
Thanks for stopping by and leaving a great comment, and giving us an insight to you! I love you love peewee’s antics, I DO TOO
OH! Mymy Mia!
Well first, that pic of you, in purple! I may not survive that one.
I do love harsh humiliation. I do love harsh degradation too. We have talked about it and the differences.
I started here at LDW on the sensual end and it naturally progressed toward harsh. That had more to do with discovering my love for strong women or maybe re-discovering my love for strong women.
I am and have always been an exhibitionist. Couple that with a love for strong women and here we are!
As I said I started, in 2013 here, on the sensual end and loved it. It was mild humiliation through their laughter and name calling so I had an inkling I liked that part and the CFNM aspect of course. I liked being the one vulnerable and later on display, literally, on cam.
Violet, Delia, Harper, Hunter, Olivia, Constance mostly, some others that are gone and a bit later Brighton and Cindy. Eventually YOU! Even more others have come and gone, Melanie, Marilyn…
It was Lena and Nadia who came in later who went ‘right at me’ directly, harsh, pulling no punches. Just telling me like it is. I am the Mistress, you are the bitch!
Oh no! I liked it!
Long story short, I wanted more of it. It played into my love for strong women, even overtly strong women and progressing to DOMINANT women who TELL ME what to do. Now my favs are dominant with me!
It is arousing to surrender to a woman so fully, to accept all of her as she is, so that includes her dominant side, it has to. I enjoy ‘getting to’ experience it!
And I will say although I prefer the harsh treatment most of the time, you, my favs all know me well enough they still go sensual in some sessions or part of the session and that still has the same affect on me as it did in the beginning, especially mixed in with the harsh because it surprises me and keeps me off balance. I can’t predict where you are going!
“OMG! Why does she sound nice all of the sudden? What do I do now?… oh, she is working me, lifting me up, then dropping me on the floor…” is the kind of thing that goes through my head.
You women are so beautiful for that! It’s not unpredictable behavior, on your part, like a fool would think. “Oh, she can’t make up her mind, typical ditzy woman”. NOPE!
It’s smart behavior and I LOVE IT! It tells me you are always one step ahead of me, at least, and I LOVE smart women!!!
When you know the person, you have the full palette at your disposal. Even when sensual it is delivered with that underlying subtext of control. That’s because you all know me, know what works and are so good at what you do you can still push my buttons any way you want.
So yes, you can deliver a statement, a command, a directive, an order in a sensual voice with the demeanor of the calm, in control woman and it can still sting with humiliation. Its the very fact you are saying it, the way you say it, the timing, the little laugh that follows it or even the direct point blank nature of it that is humiliating “You are going to lick up YOUR OWN CUM for me” STILL has a powerful affect on me because of its very taboo nature. You just saying the obvious also STILL has a powerful affect on me because I am being reminded I am in full view of you doing exactly what you say. I can’t deny it!
You were extremely harsh in my self-bukkake indoctrination session and I was glad BUT a lot of the time you were also delivering your commands with the cool sensual voice of the confident woman and experienced mistress and i will never tire of that!
Those very simple things still send that erotic shiver down my spine!
I declare again! I LOVE smart women! I LOVE humiliation from smart women because it’s NOT one dimensional!
I can’t help myself for it so please help yourself to me!
I will thank you for it profusely!
Looks like someone had a very good time, commenting on my blog! you’ve inspired me, stay tuned!
😳 … um, what? Inspired? WTF is that supposed to mean? Oh no! WTF? Stay tuned? Why, are you gonna ‘tune me up’? Oh dear, what now? Oh damn WTF did I doooo …?
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