Hi there, readers! Discussing Degradation Humiliation today, and here’s why. A comment from a fan the other day got me thinking. He said I had a sweet personality. Of course, I didn’t disagree! I CAN be a very sweet! His comment got me thinking about myself in the D/s dynamic, and I thought I’d share my thoughts with you now. I am a sweet soul, but I also have a very demanding, humiliating side, which is thrilling for me to exercise from time to time! Some relieve stress by being submissive and humiliated. I relieve my stress by humiliating others! Win win!
I absolutely LOVE when you comment on my blog, or send me an email letting me know your thoughts on a subject. Today is no different. What you are about to read is a bit from reality and a bit from my erotic brain.
Certainly degradation involves humiliation. But humiliation doesn’t necessary involve degradation. Some might argue they are one in the same. There is a fine line as I see it. Humiliation when played with in the D/s dynamic involves a set of guidelines for the session, established before it begins. There are acts which are performed to elicit that humiliation response. The person is actively being humiliated for what they are doing, for their behavior. The humiliation stops when the scene stops.
The sub, probably some high powered executive, cleans up, dresses and is back to his typical “male self” in no time! Degradation, involves breaking down the organism, making it less than itself. A demoralized state, a being who is less than before.
It is a kind of humiliation which targets who the person is versus the behavior (sucking cock) and can actually be very damaging to a psyche.
Playing with Degradation Humiliation
I take these two types of erotic play very seriously and require a few minutes of getting to know you , one on one before I decide to entertain your humiliation/degradation theme. Discuss what kind of humiliation you are interested in. Verbal humiliation, and to what extent. Humiliating tasks involved? I’m here to play, fuck with your mind a bit , for our mutual amusement.
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again. If I think what we are doing in session will honestly impact you in such away that you are unable to recover , I won’t play. Although I find the male gender a challenge at times, and have fanciful fantasies about bringing some of them down a notch or 1700, I honestly and truly don’t want to cause irreversible damage to anyone. (well, anymore). With hardcore ongoing degradation it is quite possible. Here’s a sample of both verbal, physical and task oriented degradation humiliation.
Sample of Degradation
Fuck! “Johnny” what a loser pervert you are! On your knees and your hands behind your back! Not fast enough, whore! *Slap*
I told you what I expected from you and you failed to do it. You know, you really are a worthless troglodyte. Why I even allow you to look upon me, allow you into my space is beyond me! *slap* Look at my feet only!
A stupid , ugly fuck like you should be working EXTRA hard to please a woman like me! Your pathetic limp dick is an offense to all women and I told you to CAGE that mutha fucker by today! I asked ONE THING , ONE fucking thing from you, moron! You are such a stinking festering smegma pile, you can’t deliver! I don’t care what your excuse is, not my problem they are out of stock on the tiniest little pp cage! Not my concern you tried 5 places and none have a cage small enough. You are a pathetic freak of nature who only deserves my boot! *taking stiletto heel pressing it into his chest*. Wincing from the sharp pain I push him back hard, so his ass sits on his heals.
All you are good for is a swift kick in the nads! *kick*Judging from your whimpering and tears you are a TOTAL fucking loser pussy boi!
*slapping* Face, now beg me slut, beg me for more! Say your loser pervert affirmation! “Mistress, I am but a speck of disgusting waste on the ground, ready for you to grind your boot into my soul and treat me like the pathetic slut I am”
Yes the above can be part of a “structured scene” or it can be an ongoing lifestyle which will certainly cause degradation of your self esteem, over the long term.
If you found this post interesting, you are not alone! I’d love to hear your thoughts. So DISH!
Listen to the audio, for a taste of my vile words! Also a tease about fucking loser who popped up on skype begging for Andi and I to humiliate and degrade him ! I’ve played with him before, and ya: Smegma pile! LOL
Until we chat,
Mistress Erika 💋