Today’s blog: Submissive Male Flavors was inspired by a recent request (post) at Enchantrix Empire where I asked for suggestions on topics for this blog! I had a few conversations with respondents, including a conversation I had with Dragon, a devoted submissive and a fellow EE (Enchantrix Empire) member! He suggested, as well as others, talking about levels of submission. When asked to define “levels” (kinda reminded me of the 7 levels of hell, LOL) their definition was geared more types or as what I refer to as “Flavors” 😉 So here’s a look at some of those “Flavors”. Not meant as an all inclusive list, by any means. So don’t get all butt hurt if your flavor isn’t here. You may comment, on yours and I may consider it for another time.
Fantasy Submissive Male
I get it, your fantasies revolve around submitting to a beautiful Dominate Woman. But even that simple concept of submission is chock full of variants. Some may heavily rely on BDSM scenes of paddling, floggers and ball gags to feel submissive in the fantasy. I know some of you love to foot worship, kneeling and kissing my feet makes you feel all weak and powerless. Another common theme is coerced feminization. Probably is one of the more popular. Regardless of the scene, the fantasy of your submission is where it’s at. Where you need to stay. That’s great, let’s play. Talk with me, let me in your mind. We’ll create or hell, submit to me and I’ll create a dandy fantasy for us to both enjoy!
Submissive Male Tasks
Others want to add a twist , taste the forbidden fruit. Performing tasks is important for your feelings of submission. You find both the idea of submitting to a Dominate Woman in fantasy hot, on one level, but also serving her by completing tasks or assignments gives you that extra thrill. Here’s where the humiliation aspect really comes into play, regardless if you are a pantie boi, cock sucker or stroker slut there are tasks that inherently ramp up the possibility of someone, a stranger coming to the realization of what your most intimate of sexual fantasies are all about. Opening yourself up for possible ridicule and/or repulsion by another is both anxiety producing and humiliating. Most of us are used to being vulnerable to our most intimate of partners but who is up for asking about naughty things at the “bookstore”?
Submissive Male Lifestyle
Those who have taken fantasy, to reality ,and have been able to acquire a FLR in their lives have yet a different perspective on what it means to be a submissive male. Some relationships, the bedroom play is D/s in nature, from an easily to imagine FLR bedroom where her orgasms are paramount. His orgasms are “as they are granted”. To more intense BDSM scenes. But out of the bedroom, they conform to (more or less) stereotypical female / male roles. Or should I say, present themselves as a “main stream couple” vs a D/s couple.
I’ve gone and rambled on with a subject we all could probably spend eons looking at and examining. I’ve barely touched the surface regarding power exchange relationships. I guess that means only one thing. You’ll have to call me and discuss this subject further! You know I’d love to. Until then.
Love the flavors of submission idea…. I have (to varying degrees) sampled them all. And I LOVE it! Great post Mistress Erika 🙂
Thank you, many names person! 😉 We’ll have to touch base on your sampling! Interesting!
Very Well said and written Mistress.And its wonderful you and the other Misses are able to provide fanasty for Submissive males that some may never really be able to furful in there relationship with there other half. And so many Flavors and kinks. As for 24/7 its beautiful and being on both sides of the Coin very rewarding.. Great post my Mistress ..love it 🙂
🙂 Thanks Pete! See you around the Empire!
I’m sooo looking and wanting to be in female lead relationship. I am submissive as ice started wearing women’s clothes/leggings/yoga pants/women’s ankle & knee high boots also I’ve started wearing lotions/layering with perfume. I finally told one of my lady friends that I like the smell of women’s lotions/perfumes and was ok with it. I want her & her gf to take control of our relationship as I’ve asked the one but both are to busy with their family/job along with school. With wedding reception up coming in 3 weeks I’m going to wear my women’s pull up pants in either violet or brown color with unisex sweater. I’m going to wear my Ralph Lauren passion lotion layering it with the passion perfume. Do you think I should do this? Iffy on wearing bra under my shirt though otherwise I’ll make mess in my panties ????????????
Petey, love the layering. Keep that up! I see your conundrum regarding the bra, I say it depends on if you are ready to handle the exposure, if there is any from wearing a bra. You should discuss this at length to make sure you are ready for such an event, if it should happen. 😉
I don’t think I’m ready yet to handle wearing the bra. It’s still hot/humid & muggy. I hate dressing when it’s like that and I feel ill have to wear b cup or sports bras to not be noticeable. I’ll wear women’s boots/or mules as I’ll have my friend decide what I should wear. I’ll for sure have on lotions layering with perfume on along with women’s slacks. I think the one my age really has crush/likes me. But she’s busy now with taking care of parents/her church having fall festival in getting everything ready at end of October. But she’s totally changed/tamed me and taken control in making me more accountable. If I want to keep this going I have to do what she says and not upset her. It’s safe to say I’m
In relationship as I’m thinking about her and just like her.
petey, a b cup will be noticeable! But perhaps a camisole, hum? 😉 Keep us updated on your FLR!
I didn’t think b cup would be noticeable. Even with sweater on would it be? I’ll for sure wear my Ralph Lauren midnight passion lotion layering it with the same perfume along with wearing either violet/cappiceno women’s slack with either mules or ankle boots I’ll ask one of my lady friends. I want to tell you I just got back from clinque and bought foundation/pink roll on blush/3 shades of burgundy lipstick in which lady samples all on me. OMG!!! What a thrill and I was hard ????????????and almost soaked my panties but didn’t. If I did click goes the chastity!????????. I feel I need to tell my masseuse this as we have strained friendship after our coffee shop deal fell through as I didn’t have the funds. She said she wants picture of me in 2 dresses/women’s top I bought from her gf with lipstick/bra/panty/slip/heels on. I think she will use this as payback. If she does this I’ll be at her mercy for real I will be in female led relationship for real as her cream puff girl.
Oh kay, if you say so 😉
Things always have a way of working out for the best
Naughty petey creampuff, glad you didn’t flood! How embarassing!
Your right mistress the bra will show even if it’s b cup. There will be friends there who don’t know that I dress and it’s to big a risk. I’ll wear what I mentioned along with layering lotion/perfume. If others notice I can say the girls I’m with made me do this and it will be start of them taking control of me finally. It would’ve been embarrassing if I would’ve flooded my panties after yesterday. After much thought I’m going to let my masseuse take pictures of me in dress/bra/panties/slip/heels and show her what I bought and hope she uses this on me. I feel I need to make this up to her after pulling out of coffee shop deal and repair strained friendship with her. I know once she has pictures of me she can hit send anytime and I’ll be exposed. I hope she agrees to this as I really will be in female lead relationship with her nails dug into me forever as her cream puff girl.
O petey, we have to chat. Privately. 😉
Love how you use the word Male rather than Man. Man should be reserved for Alphas. Me personally I fall into the last two groups of tasks and lifestyle.????
Hi Mistress Erika, I hope i have your permission to post on your blog. I love this post. I am an all of the above and more submissive male. As i believe some males are lesser males who are at the bottom of the heirarchy both socially and economically. These males like me become submissives or slaves.
TT, I adore hearing from everyone so of course you can post! It pleases Me!
But TT, I have to correct you, there are submissive at the top of the economic rungs too 😉
It is always a pleasure to submit to you. I love pleasing you and thank you for allowing me to please you.
Mmmmmm, very nice. You might earn that orgasm today!! LOL