Hello Dear readers, today we are going talk about tickling fetish. That’s right, sexual arousal brought on by the tickling sensation. Demystifying fetishes and shining a light on it is part of what I do. Some of you may have heard about tickling, others, I bet you have not. So along with my sexy erotic musings I like to interject some “learnin”. Because, in my mind and many open minds, as long as you stay Safe, Sane and Consensual it’s all good in my book! But as we shall see, not all feel the way I do!
What Is A Tickling Fetish
It is exactly as it sounds. Tickling is arousing, and sexually stimulating to those with this kink. According to psychology today tickling fetish is also known as
Kinismolagnia. I know some of you just looked at the word in HORROR! Haha “how in the HELL-O” do you pronounce that? Interestingly when I went to webster on line, they show zero results!?!? Wot? Ok So Erika is going to pretend to be webster here:
kinismolagnia: Nis-MA-LE-NAh.
Or click kinismolagnia to go to a sample , I found.
Okay, you back? We’ll just stick with tickle, agreed? (laughs)
Tickle Tickle What a Pickle
I’ve had the pleasure of doing several types of tickle calls, and I have to say although it is new to me I’m kinda digging it. It really isn’t too far off from other types of power exchanges. Most definitely the tickled one is weak, powerless and some might say submissive. The few fantasies I’ve been introduced to include the feelings of helplessness. Sometimes that helpless and unable to escape the tickling is because they are tied. Humm. Where have I heard about sexual play and being bound? humm. (winks).
Sensation Play And Tickling Fetish
We often engage in sensation play,which in practice can be a wide variety of things. From soft silk, to leather. Certainly CBT, spanking and other BDsm activties revolve around raising the sensations. Why would we say “tickling” isn’t a viable “sensation” to play with, right? RIGHT!
For this post I actually looked into the “Tickling” sensation scientifically, as I am prone to do.
From How Stuff Works: The somatosensory cortex is responsible for analyzing touch; for example, the pressure associated with it. The signal sent from the skin’s sensory receptors also passes through the anterior cingulated cortex, which governs pleasant feelings.
The article also goes on to explain why we cannot tickle ourselves, in essence because our nervous system “feels” both sides of the tickle. But I’m happy to report that the article was a bit narrow minded. Here’s why.
I often “do things” on this end to be more “in the moment” to create the energy I’m looking for sooooooooo- on one call with a sexy tickler, where they tables were turned and I was the one being tickled, I was ABLE to tickle myself. Perhaps not to the extent another could or would, but just taking my long nails and gently scratching my arch really TICKLED!
Tickling Marginalization
So if you look at the tickling fetish as I have here, it makes perfect sense why there would be those of us who are aroused by the act of tickling. It’s sensual and fun or can be taken all the way to TORMENT level.
(again) Humm… where have I heard those dynamics before?
One tickle pet explained their challenges having this fetish to me in an email. I won’t divulge the details, but example after example he showed me how others view it as “Weird” and made him feel “unwanted”. Even in the BDsm world, asking for tickles or finding someone to engage enthusiastically is difficult to find. That even in the “marginalized groups of Kinksters” have their very own subset of marginalizing the tickle fetish.
I feel for him, and you if you have ever been made to feel “less than” because of your kink and desires. It’s why I am here, and love what I do. Provide that safe place to explore!
Wiggling My Fingers Conclusion
I’ve often found that many distance themselves from “kinks” manly because they just don’t understand it. We humans are strange creatures. One would think with such large and powerful minds we wouldn’t be so afraid of things that confuse us or is “different” but unfortunately we are. Good News is you can , unlike many animal species, grow your understanding and come to accept and celebrate our differences, rather than to fear and demolish what is unfamiliar.
So if you have a tickling fetish, or other lessor known kinks you have a fun open minded sexy Woman ready to play! Just keep it Safe, Sane and Consensual!
Are you ready to incorporate tickling with your sensation play? ? Let’s go!
Until We Chat ????
Intelligent Phone Fantasy Mistress Erika
Mistress Erika,
I would never say no to a sexy tickle from you!
You have me so excited thinking about this. When we can play with our BBC, and my wife thinks that will be soon – Yeah!, I will tickle his balls and see what reaction I get. This could be fun.
Your C&N, Cum Slut, Boy Toy and soon to be tickler Tom
Hey Tom!
Good to see you here, you naughty thing! Absolutely tickle and serve, and perhaps receive a BIGGER reward for those yummy lips and tongue!
Mistress Erika,
You know it!! A new Fetish contributes to my Fetish…Yum, Yum, Yum ????????????????????
Have I told you lately how wonderful and gorgeous you are! ????????
Your C&N Cum Slut Boy Toy Tom
????Thank you C&N Slut! Hope your lockdown is coming to an ‘end’
in more than one way!
I never knew there was a word knismolagnia before. So i did learn that from You Goddess Erika. So it is called a tickling fetish. I wonder if tickling could be included with CBT? Good post.
Well, humm let’s see. CBT – Cock and Ball Torment so sure tickling is tormenting for many so let’s give it a GO!!
Mistress Erika,
I am all in with you on National Donut Day. As long as you tickle my you no what by tossing a plain donut it on it. I will take care of the glaze! Remember I get to eat the whole thing after.
Actually, wouldn’t it be fun to do a whole dozen….I have to say I would run out of glaze. ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
Your tweets are absolutely f…ing amazing. JUST LIKE YOU!
BTW.. you can tickle me with a 12” long dark hair on the back of my leg any time you want..PLEASE!!!
Your C&N, Cum Slut Boy Toy and Now Donut Glazer Tom
LOL Oh Tom I love those images! Yum yummy for your tummy!!
Mistress Erika,
Imagine taking a long strand of your beautiful silky dark hair and wrapping it and tying it in a neat bow around my cock!
Now that would be a reminder of a ticklish delight!
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Your C&N Cum Slut Boy Toy missing you ???????? Tom
MMMM Yes, missing you too naughty !!
My oh my what a wonderful blog. I think back to my pass the tickle slave a few months ago and what a delight it was. Verbal teasing and word play I find can make a ticklish situation even worse for the tickle victim. I am pleased to report I have experienced some amazing tickle sessions from the beautiful mistresses of LDW.
Aww Stu! Thank you , it was a blast your tickle torment DAY! That’s right for HOURS one after another tickle tickle coochie coo you are ours now STU!!