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Sensual Humiliation and You

Hello, kinky friends! Today we talk about sensual humiliation. What’s the difference you might ask yourself. Well, humiliation just like most other things has variations. What makes you feel humiliated is probably as individual as , well, individuals! Let’s take a look at humiliation and sensual humiliation today.


Humiliation typically is something that happens to you, by another that invokes extreme negative emotional response.  To further illustrate-there are certain overall themes we can all wrap our heads around regarding what humiliation looks like.  Public speaking, and having a  heckler yelling at you. Being unceremoniously chastised by your boss, in front of a client. Suddenly finding yourself naked in front of a group of people, them laughing in response.  Perhaps your wife answering “Eh, alright,” when you hear her girlfriend ask “How was last night?” You thought you were a stud and well, stud, you just weren’t. All are variations of humiliation. The last two examples are examples of sensual humiliation.

Harsh Humiliation

Some consider degradation as being  humiliation, and they are not wrong. Verbal humiliation, calling of names, faggot , cock sucker, fucking loser, sissy slut, all  dripping with loathing and judgement, has degradation at its intent. It is also humiliating for a beautiful woman to degrade you, and wouldn’t have anything to do with you because you are a sissy fucking cock sucker. Making your ringtone announce what a  A bukakke bitch you are is something you can’t have Aunt Millie hearing, eh? The energy behind this type of humiliation is to tear down the person, reduce them in both stature and substance in your eyes, their eyes and even the eyes of the world. Other types of harsh humiliation can involve erotic BDSM / impact play or humiliating tasks.

Sensual Humiliation

Sensual Humiliation

Exploring Sensual Humiliation

With some sensual humiliation play, there might be some terms like slut or fuck toy used. It’s a matter of the usage, intent and result. Often sensual

humiliation is on the subtle spectrum and maybe punches of harsh. Imagine this: your submissive is kneeling in panties before you, and is allowed to pleasure you with his mouth only. Then after your orgasm, winking and pinching his cheek lightly with a wicked smile and calling him  a good twat boy. Twat boy is degrading as an alpha male, but the intent is to compliment, and having him in your panties, not having an orgasm when you are satisfied, and his trembling manhood is begging for release, you know the result is the one we are looking for. One of the more common forms of sensual humiliation is having you beg for orgasm. Begging is humiliating in and of itself, and for a man to beg for something that is a basic human function is on the sensual humiliation scale and pretty f-in hot for me! Wanna get MY motor running. Beg. Earnestly and honestly.  ❤💋

Tune in next time for a hot little story, using sensual humiliation to further illustrate. In the meantime take a look at some of my other  humiliation posts, if you read something that makes you tingle , I want to know!

Until we chat………..

24 comments to Sensual Humiliation and You

  • Tom

    I love being degraded only wearing my fishnet nylons and 10 inch high heels but I call them my cum fuck me shoes and I love say misrtess erkia name when u are and and I love be called and get on all four doggie style me whore

  • Erika

    Tom, I edited your reply. This is an adult themed blog but I will not tolerate such language in public. What you said is all well and good IN SESSION, but not for a comment on my blog.

    Last warning. Do not push it. I will ban you.Understood? Good.

    Now run along in your nylons, slut, and sit in the corner for an hour or 10,000. 💋

  • Tom

    I will be a good SLAVE

  • tftt

    Goddess Erika, I didn’t think harsher humiliation and sensual humiliation go together. I do love degradation though. I guess i will just have to start begging you more often. i love to beg.

  • Mandy

    I have never begged but I believe if I follow your wishes and have you be in control I do not have to beg a little humiliation is a part of life Mandy

  • Brad Simpson

    Mistress Erika I guess I need to beg more. Maybe then I could have more orgasms. I will start begging more Mistress.

    • Erika

      Yes, I adore begging. But you have to be creative! I am not persuaded by a beggar that just repeats “Please please please”

      • tftt

        That just means i will have to come up with more creative ways to beg you Goddess Erika. I have to say more then Please. What can i do. Hum.

        • Erika

          LOL TFTT, You may be a tiny loser, but some how manage to make me smile! I can’t wait to hear you beg! OH btw I had some champagne last night. You know what comes with champagne, right? tee hee.

  • Petey cream puff

    For me it’s sensual humiliation with you dressing/lipstick kissing my cheeks and keeping me as your cream puff girl. After our very first call you took control of me like this along with Ms Olivia/Ms Delia and Ms Cindy in which all 3 mistresses caught me in their bras/panties/dresses/heels and lipstick. Once I get back from vacation I’ll start calling you and the other mistresses and try to get set day/time/schedule.

    Ps my masseuse is sensual as well as she gave me her old bras/took pictures with her phone of me dressed up/measured and fitted me in bra along with going out to lunch. She uses perfumes and lotions on my massages and cheeks to keep me girlish smelling which I asked her to do. She said she felt uncomfortable taking pictures as people could walk in or see me and she’s looking out for me. Every time we’ve gone out I’ve dressed up in women’s clothes/bra/panty/with ankle boots/perfume. She did say I have perfect body and I look better in women’s clothes/dresses then I do in my guy clothes and said more women need to be more accepting of guys like me. She told me to embrace/accept who I am and become and I agreed with her. She’s taken control over my spending so I can continue to do 2 hour massages 3xweek along with monthly waxings and shopping trip is out on hold for time being as she said I have enough women’s clothes. I’ll do whatever she wants and asks of me as I’m in female lead relationship with her and as I said in last blog she does have her nails dug into me and I don’t want her to ever let me go.

    • Erika

      Petey! You are absolutely correct, a fantastic example of sensual humiliation! I saw your pics! They are Awesome!

      • Petey cream puff

        The 38dds for great as I could wear them 24/7!! The dd breast forms weren’t as big as I thought. I ordered the tear drop breast forms. Is there difference in tear drop to other dd breast forms? If so I’ll have to order another set. I don’t mind this kind of humiliation as I wish my masseuse was more dominant of this. She said she’s uncomfortable taking pictures of me as people can see me and she has business to run which I told her I totally understand. I so want to find women who want to do this to me. After couple nights ago I was thisclose I’m coming out as I was with tennis girlfriends and married ones were trying to set them up with guys and I was there and totally left out. I didn’t say anything as I kept it in but don’t think I’ll be doing the social thing anymore. That made me really mad as this has happened to me before and I should’ve said I like to wear bras/panties/dresses/women’s clothes but didn’t. Although age gap is 20-25 years apart I realize I’m to old but I would’ve loved to see their reaction if I would’ve said this as I don’t care or give a f—k.

        • Erika


          Tear drops are just the shape, they come in different sizes. But I’m a bit confused, you have the DD breast forms, yes? AND you just ordered tear drop? What size?

          I’m not sure if I follow you. Your married tennis GF’s were trying to set each other up with dates (not with their husbands) and you were frustrated because they didn’t try to set you up, with any?

          Let’s take this private, and call me let’s discuss. I want a happy cream puff girl, not a frustrated upset one! We can work this out.

  • Tom

    I love being UR SLUT and u DEGRADING me wearing my nylons and panties and 10 inch high heels and 10 inch thigh high boots

  • Tom

    Misrtess erkia I like to beg for release

  • Tom

    Misrtess erkia I can wait til June 29 when u and misrtess andi degrade me for the cam session

  • Tom

    I love being a bukakke bitch

  • You know what, Ms. Erika? I think it’s the sensual humiliation that carries the biggest impact because the sensuality lowers your defenses and leaves you completely open and vulnerable to the truth of your own naughty desires. SO much more effective than calling someone names filled with loathing!

  • Erika

    Hey Ms Piper!

    Yes, sensual humiliation is a hot MF, and lots of fun! Thanks for stopping by sexy!

    See you around the Empire!

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